Dear Avi and Adele, My girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. I’m not ready to get married to her, but I do love her, feel like I would probably make a long-term commitment to her and want to ask her to move in with me to see how things would go. How [ Read More...]

Dear Avi and Adele: How can I select the best photos for my online profile on jdate.com? -Cute Punim Dear Cute Punim: All the online dating sites will tell you that photo quality impacts the responses that you get, and we have to agree. Here are a few easy steps you can take to get [ Read More...]

Dear Avi and Adele: I have been dating this guy for six months and things seem to be going really well. I’ve expressed interest in meeting his two kids, but he seems reluctant. Should I take this as a sign that he’s not interested in the relationship going further, or that he’s not ready for [ Read More...]

Dear Avi and Adele, A guy I really like took me out on a 2nd date. He was a gentleman and offered to pay for the meal. However, I had leftovers and instead of letting me take them home, he insisted on eating them at the restaurant. His rationale? He paid for them. Should I [ Read More...]

Dear Avi and Adele: I’m a 26 year-old female with an odd problem. I’m having a hard time juggling my very, very active dating life and have already begun to make blunders between the different dates I am having. For example, I was out with one guy for the second time the other night. In [ Read More...]

Dear Avi and Adele, I’m a 33-year-old woman who recently met someone on J-date who lives out of town. He’s 37. We met in Chicago – where neither of us are from — so that we could meet on neutral ground and went on two dates throughout the weekend. We had a really good time [ Read More...]

Dear Avi and Adele, I’m a 28 year old male who contacted online a 24 year old woman a few weeks ago. We went out once, and I liked her alright, but I don’t want to pursue things further, and I told her so (unlike most men!) in the nicest way possible. Well, she has [ Read More...]

Dear Avi and Adele: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and have begun discussing taking a vacation together. I’m overdue for a getaway, but not sure I’m prepared to travel with her. How do I know if we’re ready for this big step? – Got Shpilkes Dear Got Shpilkes: So you [ Read More...]

Dear Avi and Adele: I met a guy at a New Year’s Eve party who seemed pretty into me. We went out a few times and had good time. He puts his arm around me when we go out, gives me kisses goodnight and holds my hand. In short, we enjoy each other’s company. The [ Read More...]

Dear Avi and Adele: My husband of 10 years looks at other women when we go out even though we have a loving relationship. I know it’s probably normal, but it annoys me. What should I do? – Jewishly Jealous Dear Jealous: Your brain is already saying that you acknowledge that you’re not the only [ Read More...]